Technique

Holding tension

The anchor hand, and why it matters more than the elastic.

By , the dad behind Dad Hair Hero. The steps are the ones in the app.

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Holding tension: the anchor hand, and why it matters more than the elastic, shown on a model head

Why it matters

Your free hand is the anchor. It rests flat against her head, between the section you're working and her scalp, for the whole time you're gathering or wrapping. The anchor hand is what controls the pull she feels: not the elastic, not how hard you tug the hair.

How to do it

  1. Rest your free hand flat against her head, between the section you're working and her scalp, and keep it there the whole time you're gathering or wrapping.
  2. Loop the elastic three times for an everyday style, or five or more for sport. Ask her how it feels after the third loop, before you add another.

How to check it's right

Common mistakes

Used in these styles

Common questions

Why does holding tension matter?

Your free hand is the anchor. It rests flat against her head, between the section you're working and her scalp, for the whole time you're gathering or wrapping. The anchor hand is what controls the pull she feels: not the elastic, not how hard you tug the hair.

How do I know I'm doing it right?

Two fingers slide underneath the loop without forcing.

What is the most common mistake?

Letting the elastic control the pull instead of your anchor hand. If she feels it snap into place rather than your hand holding steady, that's the elastic doing the work it shouldn't.

Which styles use holding tension?

Classic Ponytail, High Ponytail, Two Even Pigtails, Top Knot and Sports Bun. Each step that uses it links back here.

Do this in the app

The page tells you how. The app does four things a page cannot:

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