Technique
Holding tension
The anchor hand, and why it matters more than the elastic.
Every step in the free app links to the technique it uses.

Why it matters
Your free hand is the anchor. It rests flat against her head, between the section you're working and her scalp, for the whole time you're gathering or wrapping. The anchor hand is what controls the pull she feels: not the elastic, not how hard you tug the hair.
How to do it
- Rest your free hand flat against her head, between the section you're working and her scalp, and keep it there the whole time you're gathering or wrapping.
- Loop the elastic three times for an everyday style, or five or more for sport. Ask her how it feels after the third loop, before you add another.
How to check it's right
- Two fingers slide underneath the loop without forcing.
Common mistakes
- Letting the elastic control the pull instead of your anchor hand. If she feels it snap into place rather than your hand holding steady, that's the elastic doing the work it shouldn't.
- Assuming more loops is always safer. Extra loops make it tighter, not just more secure, so check how it feels before adding another.
Used in these styles
- Classic PonytailFree, in full on this site
- High PonytailFree, in full on this site
- Two Even PigtailsFree, in full on this site
- Top KnotIn Beyond the Ponytail
- Sports BunIn Beyond the Ponytail
Common questions
Why does holding tension matter?
Your free hand is the anchor. It rests flat against her head, between the section you're working and her scalp, for the whole time you're gathering or wrapping. The anchor hand is what controls the pull she feels: not the elastic, not how hard you tug the hair.
How do I know I'm doing it right?
Two fingers slide underneath the loop without forcing.
What is the most common mistake?
Letting the elastic control the pull instead of your anchor hand. If she feels it snap into place rather than your hand holding steady, that's the elastic doing the work it shouldn't.
Which styles use holding tension?
Classic Ponytail, High Ponytail, Two Even Pigtails, Top Knot and Sports Bun. Each step that uses it links back here.
Do this in the app
The page tells you how. The app does four things a page cannot:
- Her hair, not hair in general. Choose Straight, Wavy, Thick, Curly or Coily under "her hair today" and the steps and pictures change to the method for her hair.
- A check before every step. Each step ends with what it should look and feel like, so you know it is right before you move on.
- Fix It, mid-style. When something is not right, "Something's not right" opens the fix for it without leaving the step.
- The diary. Add a photo and a note when you finish, and see what you have done and what to try next.
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